Right, so going out with the boy didn't turn out to be a grand idea, and I can live with that. It's fine, and one of my mates says, "keep it moving". And moving on indeed. I'm now chatting up two lovely ladies, that I'll call ummm... Girl1 and Girl2. They seem sane, Girl2 has a kid. Not my ideal situation, but at least the kid is not in diapers. I'll most likely go out with Girl1 next weekend and Girl2 the weekend after that. I like to talk to them a little while before getting together. And if they don't work out, then... keep it moving :)